Ettenn is wondering: “My daughter has been looking forward to turning 18 so that she will have "freedom". I'm wondering what should change when she turns 18 and she is still in HS. She will be 18 the summer before her senior year. She recently told me that she thinks she shouldn’t have a curfew. She also feels that I am being unreasonable now, to not allow her to go to her BFs home when parents aren't home, "just to talk". I think that she is sincere, but naive. I have told her that things wouldn’t change until she graduated, but based on her reaction, I'm beginning to think that it might be good to have some small changes, but I don't know what I can live with for a year. Any suggestions?