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Poll: Giving Teens Credit Cards

Thursday July 23, 2009
Mature teenagers can often handle adult responsibilities and you can always teach them a responsibility. But would you allow your teenager the freedom of having their own credit card? Is there a line that parents should draw before allowing their teen to ruin their credit before they ever even leave home? Of course there is. So banks and credit card companies have prepaid cards and other ways of safe guarding a teen from him/her self. Prepaid is what we’ve chosen for my daughter and I’m enjoying watching her learn how to handle the responsibility of it.

What do you think? Weight in on our poll. If you have given your teen a card, tell us how it is going in the comments area.

Would you give your teen a credit card?

See the poll results.

Comments
April 10, 2007 at 4:21 pm
(1) mom of many says:

You have got to be kidding! How about telling our children to get a job and earn their way? Credit cards are for extreme emergencies… what extreme emergencies do teenagers have? How about teaching our children to control their spending, save for items they want, or work for what they want? I cannot see any reason for a teenager to have a credit card, except that he/she put pressure on the parent to get one, and the parent was afraid to say no. Parenting is about teaching kids to live in the real world… use real money to do that.

April 11, 2007 at 3:53 pm
(2) mum of 3 says:

bad question,depending on house holds income is depending on weather you would even consider giving any teen a credit card .
teenagers need to learn about the real world 1st not about plastic.
credit cards in my eyes are for emergencies
bad way to start!!

January 14, 2008 at 10:29 am
(3) Trisha says:

Giving a teen a credit card implies that you give them the the means to spend your money. Teens should learn the responsibility of working for what they want and earning their own money and if they so choose with that to put it on a prepaid card then at least it is their’s. Teaching money handling, budgeting, saving, and work ethics should be done, however a parent shouldn’t have to hand over their hard earned money for a teenager to spend on her own personal wants. The problem with teens today is that too many parents are just giving them whatever they want and in the real world when they leave home that just isn’t a realistic lesson and it will be shocking for them to realize nothing comes free.

January 16, 2008 at 9:11 am
(4) Penney says:

I think of a teen credit card that I have controll over as a pre-loaded Visa card or the teen’s bank account credit card. I would not give a teen a adults credit card to be paid off in 30 days. Currently my 14yr has her bank ATM card that can get money out of her account if she should need it.

January 25, 2008 at 11:57 am
(5) Sheila says:

We did not give our son a credit card but we did give him a Visa buxx card from buxx.com and I think it has really been nice. It is not credit, it is a prepaid card and my husband and I can see where he is spending his money, suspend the card if need be, etc. I like the fact that I can add money to the card in an emergency situation.

July 11, 2008 at 7:49 pm
(6) SueAnne says:

My 16 year-old has a prepaid visa from accountnow.com. It has her name on it and costs 9.95 a month. She can use it anywhere. Her father and I are divorced, so both of us can add money to it as well as her part time job being direct deposited. I have one of these cards as well, there are no bounced check fees, if you dont have it, you are declined….which is fine with me!

July 18, 2008 at 8:57 am
(7) Tricia says:

Our 18 year old son has ALWAYS been very responsible with money – he had a “child account” from the time he was four years old, and just took the money out of it recently, (when he turned 18), so that he could open his own checking account and use his debit card. He is happy with that, because HE controls his “debt,” which he has none of. He does not want a credit card – he has seen people “go under” with them – He says he will apply for ONE credit card when he gets older and needs to build credit towards a new car, home, etc. I am so VERY proud of him! WTG, Alex!

January 25, 2009 at 5:31 pm
(8) TheOne says:

Simply put it is a great idea to give teens a credit card. Think about it, don’t give them one if you know they will fail when using it. But if you know your kid well enough then it should be obvious if their responsible enough to do it. I know for a fact it has made life way easier for my kid because he has to pay the bills. He has to pay for the card itself, and he hasn’t ever *beeped* up so I see no problem with it.

June 18, 2009 at 4:38 pm
(9) child behavior modification says:

I do not think that giving teens credit card will help them learn about money. So many adults get in way over their head with credit card debt. How about teaching your teen to need to save up for anything that they want to buy. That’s not a new concept.

July 23, 2009 at 12:02 pm
(10) Chris A. says:

I can see both angles to this, and think that children should be educated on banking and credit cards, especially on how to build a good credit score.
I want to teach my son about being responsible for his money, saving and being able to be debt free. Once he gets his license he will open a checking account and learn how to take care of it. I would also like him to learn about credit cards and how to properly use them so that when he gets to college he doesn’t abuse them as I’ve seen so many college students do. We’ve always stressed that you don’t charge something unless you have the money to pay off the bill when it comes due. Our main credit card gives us 5% cash back whenever we purchase gas and 1% on all other purchases. In today’s economy you need to save wherever you can.
If someone cannot handle a credit card, they shouldn’t have one. I think the prepaid ones would be a good way to teach them about credit.

July 23, 2009 at 12:29 pm
(11) Belinda says:

Our daughter, now 15, has had a Pay, Jr card since she was 13. It gives her a monthly allowance and a chart for chores, that when completed she earns additional money. It gives her online access and a summary of where her money has gone. We get an email every time she uses it and it has built in restrictions as to what places it can be used at. She learned quickly that her sprees at the mall depleted her funds in a hurry. It has given her control over her money and allowed her to see it either accumulate or decrease, her choice.

July 23, 2009 at 11:13 pm
(12) Dani says:

all of the parents that are pro prepaid credit cards need to understand again how important a checking account it. That is where the lessons are! balancing your money, and I as a parent have access to that account for emergencies too! allowing your teen to have a credit card is setting them up to spend in inappropriate ways. I am 30 and do not have a credit card, I have savings, and use that for emergencies, what emergency costs more than the savings you should have (6-12 months of bills)? that is how we teach our kids to be responsible.

July 29, 2009 at 10:54 am
(13) April says:

I’m not sure if it is a good idea or not, but in today’s world you can’t get by without some kind of credit. My kids are 15 and 17 and I recently gave them Visa Buxx cards. As long as they have completed all their chores I put their allowance on it every pay day. I like that I can see how they are spending their money and add money or suspend the card if I have to. I also get notices to let me know when the balances are below a certain amount. Recently my son’s card got below the amount I set on his account and I suspended the card. When he went to make a purchase his card was declined. I felt that way he would see what it was like to over spend and be embarrassed at the register, especially since that is what the banks would do. He was upset that I didn’t let him know but I informed him that banks don’t do that and neither will I. It is his responsibility to keep track of his balance and learn to budget.

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