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Tips For Every Parent of a Teenager

By Denise Witmer, About.com

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  • Talk to them about dating violence. Let them know what is permissible and what isn't.

  • Role play. Ask them how they would get out of a given situation.

  • Let them know that you are there for them. If they need to call you at 3 am, you will answer the phone, you will come get them, you will not be there to judge ~ just to help.

  • Remind your teenager that they always have the right to say "no".

  • Talk to your teen about love. Tell them that jealousy is not a sign of love. Possessiveness is not a sign of love. Respect is the sign they are looking for in a partner.

  • Consider only allowing one on one dates after you have gotten to know who your teenager is dating.

  • If your teen has had an experience of dating violence and you are the one they have chosen to talk to, then listen. Do not judge. Use active listening skills.

  • Tell someone who can help. There are people trained to help in these situations. One hot line for domestic abuse or assault is 1-800-333-SAFE.
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