Accept, support and encourage your teen. Many of your teen's feelings and thoughts about themselves come from how they perceive their parents and friend see them. The more you accept your teen for who they are, the more they will be able to accept themselves. Be there to listen when they need to talk without lecturing or trying to fix the problem. Encourage activities and friends with like-minded interests. Hobbies that your teen can use to help build their confidence.
When starting a healthier diet for your teen, include the whole family. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, 'Parents should try not to set their teen apart because of their weight, but focus on gradually changing their family's physical activity and eating habits. Family involvement helps to teach everyone healthful habits and does not single out the overweight teen.'
Get your family active - out and about in activities you can all enjoy together. Increasing physical activity while maintaining a healthy diet is the way to a healthy lifestyle for everyone in the family along with your teen. A healthy lifestyle is a teen's best defense against being overweight or becoming overweight. So plan fun and active activities for the whole family to enjoy. Make them a part of your daily/weekly routine, a fun habit and try not to turn them into a chore. Be a role model and enjoy the activities with your kids. Try not to make it a special occasion, but something that you just do all the time together. The more 'everyday' and habitual physical activity is in a teen's life, the more they will continue the good habit into their young adulthood.
Encourage your teen to develop a good attitude about healthy eating. The NIMH says: 'Don't place your teen on a restrictive diet. Teenagers should never be placed on a restrictive diet to lose weight, unless a doctor supervises one for medical reasons. Limiting what teens eat may be harmful to their health and interfere with their growth and development. To promote proper growth and development and prevent overweight, parents should offer the whole family a wide variety of foods from each of the food groups Most of the foods in your diet should come from the grain products group (6-11 servings), the vegetable group (3-5 servings), and the fruit group (2-4 servings). (See chart for suggested serving sizes.) Your diet should include moderate amounts of foods from the milk group (2-3 servings) and the meat and beans group (2-3 servings). Foods that provide few nutrients and are high in fat and sugars should be used sparingly.'
Try and introduce new foods or fun healthy recipes on a weekly basis. Your teen may even start to suggest new things. Ask them if they have some ideas of new fruits or vegetables they would like to try. They may also get ides from their friends.
All of these tips can help you help your overweight teen not only get him/her to a healthy weight, but also help his/her self-esteem and confidence. Plus, the whole family will be working towards a healthy lifestyle.