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10 School Problems Parents of Teens Face And What to Do About Them

By Denise Witmer, About.com

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Your teen is too involved and over scheduled.

Sometimes to teens, it is too easy to say ‘yes’ and/or too hard to say ‘no’ when it comes to doing fun things. Then they will find themselves way overbooked with homework, part-time job and a social life - they get in over their heads! If this sounds like your teen, there is a simple fix – un-book him/her. Here are the four steps:

  1. Sit down with your teen and take a realistic look at his/her schedule.

  2. Have him/her prioritize the activities.

  3. Fit in what can be done and drop what can’t.

  4. Role-play with your teen and teach him/her how to drop an activity respectfully.

Others may be putting a bit of pressure on your teen to continue an activity that he/she would prefer to drop. If this is the case, come up with a plan with your teen on how to handle the other person. It may or may not take your intervention. Let your teen make that choice.

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