That doesn't mean you say, “you need to start taking care of yourself; and that is that. No. It won't work. You'll need to take the time to show your teen what needs to be done and set the expectation, allow him/her some time to do this thing and check regularly that the thing is getting done. Be sure to listen to your teen's needs. Go over different types of hygiene products your teen can use and give your teen the choice. Discuss the pros and cons of different products – use your open lines of communication.
By the time your teen/young adult is ready to leave home, he/she should be independently able to:
- Brush his teeth regularly.
- Shower on a regular basis.
- Shave.
- Use deodorant.
- Clip and file toe and finger nails.
- Dress appropriately for the weather/occasion.
- Take the appropriate amount of medication when he/she has a cold, headache, etc.
- Make hair cut appointments.
- Make doctor or dentist appointments.
